I need computer/blog advice.

I am completely fumbling here and learning as I go.

I started out at blogspot and I loved my little spot in the world.  I moved up in the world and got me a wordpress site of my very own…

maybe I jumped up too quickly but I had help!! My good friend helped me get set up using her server (I apologize in advance if I mess up the verbiage here) but now there seems to a problem. Apparently, her server wants more money for my site. I am using too much something and they want more $$.

Here are some of the DMs from my friend about the problem:

“The server is charging me an extra $50 for overuse of bandwith because of your site. Their rates went up”

“I am not happy with them. The 1st of the year my service is up. I hate this server and am thinking about switching anyway.”

“looking for cheap servers @ timbury.com package will be the best for you.”

I don’t know what to do!! I need simple and straightfoward and easy and cheap!

• do I switch back to a free blogger or wordpress blog?
• do I pay $50 and get my own server (whatever that exactly means I am not really sure)
• or is there another option?
• or should I just completely start over? new year, new me?!?!
  

PLEASE hit me up with some comment-style help!!